Hi, My dad is getting sicker as the days pass. What can I do? Nothing.. I don't know I guess it is just sad and when I go to his house, if I go to his house he is sick, red skin or maybe pale, shaky hands, and frightened eyes. Its hard to talk to him because he is always mentioning that he will get a new job but he hasn;t had ajob for awhile nor has he paid child support.

I guess low self esteem only makes the situation more difficult to deal with. so please respond if you have good advice of how to move on and diconnect myself from his issues.