I've just read this thread and I am very impressed!!
My mum, aunite and sister-in-law were all teenage mums. Well my sister-in-law is still only 19 and yes she is very young. She ended up having twins on July 10th.. At first when she found out she was pregnant she wasn't happy at all, and she doesnt believe in abortions so she didn't really have an option. And she also doesn't believe in the morning after pill! She did want children but not at a young age, because she felt she was too young at the moment, she wanted to be a mature women and then have kids, in a stable home and what not. Luckily my brother (her boyfriend) did not leave her, as he is not the type of guy to do that at all!!
And they were also using protected sex. Obviously both of their lives have been cut short, not being able to actually live a life because of how young they are..
I too am 19 and pregnant. But this is basically a 1 in a million chance to happen!!
My boyfriend is in-fertile, and to cut a very long story short. . .he has one funny testical, it produces too much fluid so this contaminates all the sperm. And what happened is that one single sperm tail wasn't touched and you can guess the rest. So as you see this really is a 1 in a million happening!!
I too don't belive in abortions so I am having the baby.. My boyfriend is still with me, and we both have good paying jobs and a stable home. I understand all the pressure a baby puts on relationships and everything, but I'm prepared to go through it. So this thread has really given me some mind, I'm sure it will really help